Friday, February 26, 2010

Take it easy.

Bare with me with the next few sentences that I will say in this post.

Okay, I have this friend. I can almost say he's a close friend to me. Although I don't truly know him in person, but I can truly say that I know him very well through the internet. He's a very good dear friend to me, and I care for him. He recently broken up with his girlfriend the other day, his girlfriend for over 8 months? I think. Well yeah, he has told me million of times back when they were dating that 'she' was the most greatest thing that ever happened to his life. He was so madly deeply in love with her, that he never wanted to let her go. His love for her was real which was sweet and all. And now they have broken up, he acts like it's the end of the world.

To be honest, I really don't know how people at this very young age could be depressed and sad because of a "failed" relationship. It's not the end of the world. Like what other people might say "theres other fishes in the sea" but your comeback will be "yeah, but I want THAT fish"

To be honest, we shouldn't be really worrying about love at this age, I mean...we have our WHOLE life ahead of us. It would be great and nice to share it with someone as you go through the journey, and anyone who has a special someone. Treasure it. But don't go wasting your time crying over someone. It's silly. Do something. Don't look for love, because love will find you in the right time. If it wasn't meant to be, then I guess it's not. I've been in relationships before, in which I've told the person I've love them. Back then I thought I meant it, but as I look back and think, my definiton for love has changed as I grew older.

When I was at around 11, I thought I knew the definition of love. I fell in love with this boy, and whenever I don't see him. I felt like crying. I got to see him on the weekends, and basically I've counted and crossed out weekdays as each day passes which gets closer to the weekend. It's sounds absurd, but I was young back then. Now it has changed.

I know people might disagree on what I had just said...but really, that's just what I thought.

And if my friend is reading this, I want you to know that everything will be okay. It's not the end, there will always be a tomorrow and the day after that and after that. Basically, theres a journey ahead of you. It's called life. You take it. And make the most of it.

xo.xo

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