Dota o Ako?

I completely understand with boys and their computer games. On how they have that need to spend hours on the computer fighting and playing games with other people who have the same interests on computer games as them. Everyone needs time to do their thing. "Just to get away from everybody and everything. You gotta do your thing" I wonder sometimes, what makes him more happy...being with me, talking to me or playing the computer games?

I'll never make him chose either one, because  1. I understand how boys love their computer games and 2. I'm afraid to hear the answer, because if the answer is playing those computer games...probably dating a wall would be much better.

But I have to confess something here, which I rather, for him to read it here than for me saying it to him. I'm not really sure if he still reads this blog, But anyway, I don't like the way we start of talking on the phone or on YM or Skype, and all of a sudden one of his mates will call him and asks him to join one of the games. Then  all of a sudden he tells me he's going to go and play and asks me to wait. Which sometimes can take to 30 minutes or to 1 hour occasionally. To be honest, I don't really care if he goes and play. But asking me to wait?  That is just something I do not do. Yet I have forced myself to wait before in the previous past. But waiting is just not my thing. We usually talk at night, and I've waited through out the whole day just to to talk to him, and just when we finally get to talk. He asks me to wait. I could probably have went to bed and catch up on my sleep, but no. Somehow I always pick him over sleep.

Sometimes I get annoyed with myself. How come he's able to pick something else over me when I always seem to pick him over anything else.